Morals and ethics are built around the idea that life is meaningful. Elsewhere, it has been amply established: life is meaningless. We know it for sure (from our own intense experiences of life); we may not voice it. Once we start believing that life is meaningless the burden of passing time, which essentially life is all about, seems monumental and nerve shattering.
We like to believe: we are here on a special mission; we are special people cut out for special purposes. Chasing this belief we fend ourselves from the weight of time.
Morals and ethics are about good and bad based on various frames of reference. We aspire to goodness secretly desiring goodness to be returned to our own lives in some way. When we end up doing something bad we pray to reverse the effects of badness (committed by us in the first place) shadowing our lives. We think implicitly that such cause and effect exists in the universe of morals and ethics.
I had come to know of a queer woman from a friend. She was (I’m saying in the past sense because I’ve no knowledge of her in the last 6 years) an instinctive sexual carnivore. She was happily married and had a steady family. She was hooked on to a rare breed of men – rich, intelligent and full bodied. It’s not as if she did not want to check herself from sleeping with these men. She did (in fact she suffered from a serious moral dilemma) every time she changed men [as confessed to my friend] and every time she cheated she felt sick of some illness or the other. In the thickness of her suffering she vowed every time to lead a devoted family life henceforth; thinking that the pain of illness was nature’s way of punishing her for her unbridled craving for sexual gratification.
I also know of a man who is sickly successful in almost every endeavor that he takes up in spite of employing minors in his house for doing all the tedious household chores and behaving with them in the most uncouth manner possible; I’ve also heard of rumors of his beating them up at times. There are people who are envious of his success more so because they want his ill treatment of minors to be avenged in the most immediate manner possible.
The universe of morals and ethics, I’ve concluded, is an imaginary one and more often than not is a swing ball used by the powerful against the powerless.
The universe is a chaos.
Our minds are warehouses of chaos.
We are always on a ride to comprehending the extreme ends of the chaos, one outside and the other inside.
Morals and ethics do not help us in this journey of comprehension …
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Life in reality is really meaningless. So there is no question of morality. But ethics is completley different. It has a deeper sigficance in our life.Have you read White Castle?? Please try to find the answer in Pamuk's White Castle.
I am not sure about this woman's morality... Have you watched Parama in the recent times?? Parama in the end confirms that she is guiltless. But when she takes the help of her friend to find a job, there lies the question of her ethics. So kindly differentiate between morality and ethics...
completeley should be read as completely.
sigficance should be read as significance.
"an instinctive sexual carnivore" first of all I would like to ask, what sort of animal is it??
From your writing it is quite explicit that you do not approve of this woman or animal. Why don't you have approval for this woman? Are you challenging her ethics or morality? What is hindering you to accept this woman as a normal human being? Have you ever asked yourself? Is it true that normal human beings are very different from this woman? Kindly go through the story of Christ and the famous prostitute Mary Magdalene. You are simply placing yourself in a position where you/normal human beings are beyond these confusions of morality...Morality is highly debatable and ambiguous but ethics is not a value, but nature itself.
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